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Hold Onto Your Kids

Moving from Peer Orientation to Parent Orientation As a therapist of four decades there is one issue that baffled me until recently and that is the increased rage in a

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If in Doubt, Hug it Out

A little neuroscience hack! As we launch into everyday, and the outside world, it is important to create rituals that help you stay connected. One of those is the “Welcome

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The Neuroscience of Journalling

Journaling and Its Psychological Effects: How Writing Can Improve Your Mental Health (With Daily Tips) In the digital age where stress, anxiety, and emotional burnout are increasingly common, journaling offers

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Bring Back the Spark Challenge

Every Behaviour is Trying to Get a Need Met You may know that I counsel couples, having trained with Dr Stan Tatkin, Dr Tammy Nelson, Dr Emily Nagoski, and been

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Ten Keys to Thriving

When life throws you lemons here are keys to thriving rather than just coping! Over the last 35 years I have been experimenting with how to regulate the nervous system,

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I Am So Sorry

Recently I experienced a deep hurt and betrayal, something I had not experienced for a very long time. What was surprising amongst the directly experiencing the feelings of rage, hatred,

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Healing Rage between Men and Women

Rage has many different layers that contribute to its cause: Rage can be protective or destructive, it can be an emotional indulgence or embedded in developmental trauma. Yet despite the