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The Key Word is Connection

DO YOU REMEMBER WHAT YOU GOT FOR CHRISTMAS LAST YEAR?Most of us cannot remember what we got for Christmas but we do remember the vibe of the gatherings, the connections made,

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A Story of Healing

(Trigger warning about growing up with domestic violence) For 15 years, I found myself trapped in a relentless cycle of physical and emotional abuse between my parents. I spent my

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Radical Honesty

There is this myth that not being honest supports the security in a relationship. In truth the amygdala perceives silence as a threat then turn cultivating an anxious environment around

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Healing Rage between Men and Women

Rage has many different layers that contribute to its cause: Rage can be protective or destructive, it can be an emotional indulgence or embedded in developmental trauma. Yet despite the

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The Neuroscience of Journalling

Journaling and Its Psychological Effects: How Writing Can Improve Your Mental Health (With Daily Tips) In the digital age where stress, anxiety, and emotional burnout are increasingly common, journaling offers

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Bring Back the Spark Challenge

Every Behaviour is Trying to Get a Need Met You may know that I counsel couples, having trained with Dr Stan Tatkin, Dr Tammy Nelson, Dr Emily Nagoski, and been